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Postpartum Depression: Andrea Yates
In June of 2001, Andrea Yates was left alone with her 5 children, something that her husband, Rusty and the people in her life were advised not to do. Due to her history of struggling with her mental health, her doctor instructed that she was to be supervised at all times. Within the hour of Rusty leaving for work and before her mother in law was due to show up, Andrea drowned her 5 children. Her youngest daughter, Mary, was just a few months old. Andrea took Paul, Luke and J


How MOM Portrays Addiction
The show is about mother and daughter Bonnie and Christy who are on their journey to sobriety. Both women have similar experiences when it comes to addiction. Bonnie grew up in foster care whereas Christy spent a lot of her childhood caring for her mother thru her addiction and not knowing where she was a lot of the time which eventually led her to her own addiction. The cycle continues when Christy has kids of her own and they experience their own childhood of addiction. Thr


What I’ve Learnt From Doing Blogmas
I hope everyone had a happy and healthy holiday season. Wishing you all good things in 2026.


Book Suggestions If You Need Something To Read
If you have any book suggestions, please let me know. I'm interested in finding a new book or book series.


Christmas With The Kranks
What is the one Christmas movie you can watch over and over again?


How To Deal With Seasonal Affective Disorder
Being sad around the holidays is common. The weather is dark and grey. The days are shorter and you don’t get out of the house as much as you would if the weather was warm and sunny. It’s okay to feel stuck or in a funk. Everyone goes through it. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is a type of depression that's related to changes in seasons — SAD begins and ends at about the same times every year. If you're like most people with SAD, your symptoms start in the fall and continu


How To Set Healthy Boundaries With Family During The Holidays
Dealing with family during the holidays is stressful. There are family members that you don’t want to deal with because of things they’ve said and done in the past so it’s understandable that you don’t want to be around them during the holidays, but how do you say no to those family members when they want to see you and want to visit on Christmas. You feel guilty for saying no, but you know that you have to protect your mental health. They will probably use “Its Christmas, it


Making Peace With Social Anxiety During The Holidays
Social anxiety is hard at any time of the year, but the holidays make it worse since there is a lot going on. Some people thrive on being busy and doing a million things at once, but there are other people who tend to freeze when it comes to just stepping into a store on Christmas eve. Christmas is crazy and intense and if you are someone who struggles with anxiety, it can seem like the holidays will never end. You have to try and make the best of it and know that it’s going


Traveling For The Holidays
Everyone has the same idea to go away for the holidays, especially if you live in a cold climate and want to go somewhere that’s warm. As much as we would love to be able to pack up and go somewhere where we can spend all day on the beach, there’s things to consider. I don’t want to discourage you from planning a trip, if that’s really what you want to do, but you have to think about not only where you want to go, but the financial part of it. You have to think about how many


Setting Inspiring Goals For The New Year
Setting goals for any reason is hard especially if you’ve failed in the past, but that shouldn’t stop you from trying. Use the past year as inspiration for the new year. The things you didn’t get to do, carry them over into next year. There is no need to keep coming up with new goals every year. It’s okay to recycle the ones you’ve made. If there is a goal you enjoyed, do it again. If there is one you didn’t like, throw it out. There’s no need to start fresh when you feel lik


Creating Christmas Memories With Kids
Christmas is a kid’s favorite time of year. They are excited to have time off school, to hang out with friends and to play in the snow, but there are times where kids don’t have the opportunity to create those memories, but there are ways that you can make memories for them even if it’s something small. It could be something like taking them to see Santa, baking cookies or decorating a gingerbread house. Kids are pretty easy to entertain. A lot of the time, they’re more than


Christmas On A Budget
It’s easy to be caught up in the holiday spirit and spend more than you can afford. You want to get everything your kids want, but you know it’s not going to be possible since everything they want is out of your budget. It’s hard and challenging because you want to give your kids a good Christmas, but you know you have to limit yourself on how much you want to spend. I’ve heard people shop for Christmas all year. They will see something in February and they will buy it and sa


Holiday Tag
These questions would be a good ice breaker if you were at a party or holiday get together or you can create your own depending on who you're with and if there are kids involved.


How To Avoid Christmas Burnout
The holidays are stressful and a lot of people will start to plan early enough where by the time that Christmas comes, they just want to get it over and done with. They don’t seem to enjoy the holidays as much as they should because they spent so much time making everything perfect. There are things that you can do to help you feel like you’re not rushing through everything and making sure you are getting the relaxation that you need during the holiday season. It’s okay to sa


What Is Blogmas
Welcome to Blogmas 2025. I hope you have a safe and happy holiday season.


What Is Ketamine
When ketamine is used, it's normally used for surgery and to help with pain management. It is considered to be a very powerful dissociative anesthetic . Over the last few years ketamine has been used to help treat treatment-resistant depression (TRD) with acute suicidal thoughts or actions since it as rapid-acting effects. Ketamine is an FDA approved drug that is used in medical settings, but it could be used in emergencies and on battlefields since ketamine maintains norm


Do You Know A Narcissist?
A narcissist is someone with a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy. Someone who is a narcissist has a high sense of importance when it comes to themselves. They need to have attention and want people around them to look at them with admiration. They lack feeling into other people’s feelings since they feel like their own feelings are more important. They feel like they have a high power over everyone else. There are two “main” expression


What Is Gaslighting
According to Wikipedia, “Gaslighting” is the manipulation of someone into questioning their perception of reality. The term derives from the 1944 film Gaslight and became popular in the mid-2010s. With gaslighting comes with things like lying, denying facts and distorting information to make the person doubt themselves. It’s a form of abuse. The victim will be more dependent on the abuser. The victim will be left in confusion, have anxiety and feel isolated. Their confidence


What Hurts The Most
I’ve recently gotten some news, it’s good news, but the way I was told this news was in a way I thought could have gone better. I feel like with this type of news, I would have been told a lot sooner. I feel like if we were as good as friends as I thought we were, I would have learnt about this a lot earlier. Don’t get me wrong, this is something to be happy about, but I’m disappointed, angry and heartbroken. There are so many things I’m feeling regarding this situation. Mont


Happy Birthday To My All Time Favorite Person
My birthday message for Lou Ferrigno Jr.


Supporting Someone Who Is Grieving
Everyone grieves differently. Some people want to grieve in private and other people want to express their grieving by talking about the person that has passed. Sometimes grief hits people at different times. Just because someone doesn’t show the signs and symptoms of grief as soon as something happens, doesn’t mean they won’t. You can’t put a timeline on when someone should feel something. It will come eventually. It will come in waves. You could be fine one minute and then


Bullying And Autism
Bullying for anyone is hard, but it’s especially when the person that is getting bullied is different from their peers and classmates. It makes for an easy target for bullies. As much as kids are more open to other kids being different, they may not get treated that fairly at home which makes them act out at school. They may use their anger towards others. They don’t know that it’s wrong. When someone is different and doesn’t understand certain things like emotions and facial


What’s Your Favourite Scary Movie?
I grew up watching horror movies. My brother was the one that introduced them to me when we were kids. He suggested that I watch George A Romero’s 1978 classic movie Dawn Of The Dead . I’ve loved that movie ever since. I’ve seen what people say are the scariest movies of all time, but when I watch them, I’m like “Is this it?” I didn’t jump or get scared once. People have said that Heredity was one of the best horror movies, but I didn’t think it was considered a horror, but m


Is My Blog Worth It?
I’ve had a blog since 2009 and over the years, I’ve blogged about several different topics. I started off on one platform then moved over to where I am now and I feel like no matter what I write about isn’t worth the effort. I feel like I’m talking into the wind. People aren’t engaging, leaving comments or suggested new topics for me to talk about. I know I should be writing for myself, but out of all the years I’ve been blogging, I feel like I should have left some sort of
Anything, but Ordinary
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