Anything, but Ordinary

A narcissist is someone with a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy. Someone who is a narcissist has a high sense of importance when it comes to themselves. They need to have attention and want people around them to look at them with admiration. They lack feeling into other people’s feelings since they feel like their own feelings are more important. They feel like they have a high power over everyone else. There are two “main” expression

According to Wikipedia, “Gaslighting” is the manipulation of someone into questioning their perception of reality. The term derives from the 1944 film Gaslight and became popular in the mid-2010s. With gaslighting comes with things like lying, denying facts and distorting information to make the person doubt themselves. It’s a form of abuse. The victim will be more dependent on the abuser. The victim will be left in confusion, have anxiety and feel isolated. Their confidence

I’ve recently gotten some news, it’s good news, but the way I was told this news was in a way I thought could have gone better. I feel like with this type of news, I would have been told a lot sooner. I feel like if we were as good as friends as I thought we were, I would have learnt about this a lot earlier. Don’t get me wrong, this is something to be happy about, but I’m disappointed, angry and heartbroken. There are so many things I’m feeling regarding this situation. Mont

My birthday message for Lou Ferrigno Jr.

Everyone grieves differently. Some people want to grieve in private and other people want to express their grieving by talking about the person that has passed. Sometimes grief hits people at different times. Just because someone doesn’t show the signs and symptoms of grief as soon as something happens, doesn’t mean they won’t. You can’t put a timeline on when someone should feel something. It will come eventually. It will come in waves. You could be fine one minute and then

Bullying for anyone is hard, but it’s especially when the person that is getting bullied is different from their peers and classmates. It makes for an easy target for bullies. As much as kids are more open to other kids being different, they may not get treated that fairly at home which makes them act out at school. They may use their anger towards others. They don’t know that it’s wrong. When someone is different and doesn’t understand certain things like emotions and facial

I grew up watching horror movies. My brother was the one that introduced them to me when we were kids. He suggested that I watch George A Romero’s 1978 classic movie Dawn Of The Dead . I’ve loved that movie ever since. I’ve seen what people say are the scariest movies of all time, but when I watch them, I’m like “Is this it?” I didn’t jump or get scared once. People have said that Heredity was one of the best horror movies, but I didn’t think it was considered a horror, but m

I’ve had a blog since 2009 and over the years, I’ve blogged about several different topics. I started off on one platform then moved over to where I am now and I feel like no matter what I write about isn’t worth the effort. I feel like I’m talking into the wind. People aren’t engaging, leaving comments or suggested new topics for me to talk about. I know I should be writing for myself, but out of all the years I’ve been blogging, I feel like I should have left some sort of

Towards the end of March, there was a video that was leaked online of a major spoiler for 911. It had appeared that there was going to be a death of a major character since the 118 was dressed up to do a funeral possession with his turnouts on the back of the fire engine. We expected that the reveal of how he died was going to be shown in the upcoming episodes, but we still had hoped that it was just some sort of dream like a character was in a coma. We had our speculations t

What is a boundary? A boundary is a limit or line, real or imagined, that defines what is acceptable and unacceptable in a given situation or relationship. It helps protect your time, energy, feelings, and personal space. Boundaries can be physical, emotional, mental, or based on time and space. It is a guideline indicting what someone is okay with and what their not uncomfortable with. You can’t step over that line and make the person feel unsafe. Boundaries are tough to un